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How to Get a Girl to Notice You

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Have you experienced walking at the mall then saw one beautiful chick walking beside you?

You  started the conversation and had fun talking to her, then when she waived goodbye, you went wuss to get her number?

“Damn, I could have asked for her number…”

Yes, you could have.

Well, I used to be like this before, and I know a lot of guys also suffer from this kind of situation. You know, the unprepared meeting with a super hot chick.

It can be running out of words to say or forgetting to ask for her number because you don’t know how to… or it can be simply not knowing what to say in your approach.

In this article, you will learn how to avoid those awkward moments and how to deal with this kind of situation.

The importance of preparation.

“Preparedness refers to the state of being prepared for specific or unpredictable events or situations. Preparedness is an important quality in achieving goals and in avoiding and mitigating negative outcomes.” ~Wikipedia Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Preparedness

So basically, preparation is important in preventing NEGATIVE OUTCOMES, or let me just say, FAILURE AND REJECTION.

If you’re failing to prepare, you’re preparing to fail.

If you’re just beginning to pick up women and if you’re having a hard time, then the only way to deal with it is to prepare one single way to meet women.

How to Get a Girl to Notice You – Prepare:

1. One single way to open to women

2. One single story to tell

3. One single way to ask for her number

Well, this may sound canned, but if you’re just starting out then this is a great way to practice your skills. Once you get a hang of it, you will be able to think of other lines and experiment it on your own. But this time, you have to prepare one set of routine to avoid situations where you actually forget what you’re about to say.

What Happens If I Don’t Prepare?

Well, there’s only one thing that will happen when you don’t prepare: you get confused.  You don’t know where you did wrong and where you need to improve.

This is one problem of guys out there, they don’t prepare that’s why they don’t know what they did right and what to do next.

When you meet women, you need to create your own pattern from approaching to building attraction and what to do next. Without this kind of preparation, it’s easy to get confused.

And what happens when you get confused? You lose control of the situation.

Prepare before you attack. Prepare before approaching women. That’s how you can get a girl to notice you.

Practice this at home or with a friend if necessary

1. One single way to open to women

2. One single story to tell

3. One single way to ask for her number

I’m not saying to prepare for the whole thing, like, ‘what do I say when she says this and that?’ because it’s too complicated that way and you’ll sound scripted and not natural. But you should be aware of one routine. Review it BEFORE AND AFTER so you could know your mistakes and how you can improve it.

What kind of body language will you use?
– Have you practiced the proper body language? Do you know what the proper body language is?

– Are you relaxed and comfortable? What kind of tone are you using and how fast do you talk?

– Review what kind of body language you must use before approaching women and assess them after so you can know where you make mistakes.

What kind of opener will you use?
– Are you using a direct or indirect opener?

How long will you stay in the scene?
– Are you going to stay for 3-5 mins only then grab the number and leave? Or are you going to stay as long as you’re creating attraction?

How will you close?
– will you ask for her number and leave? Or will you ask for an instant date? Date close?

Remember to always prepare … and plan your attack. Imagine what you would be doing in that particular situation. And then write down the things you should do and the things that you shouldn’t.

It will be helpful if you IMAGINE the scenario. Practice saying your own routine.

After you get out of the scene, review all the actions that you’ve taken. Take notes of the mistakes you had and think of the things that will improve your approach next time.

If you do this consistently, you will improve your mistakes consistently.

Think about how you can improve your mistakes. And don’t take rejection personally. Just use it to improve your game.

Using one same strategy in meeting women is a great way to start and practice your skills. Once you master that one default thing that you do you will learn more ideas and may experiment on new strategies. Just focus on one routine first and learn how to get a girl to notice you and then practice other routines.

How to Get a Girl to Notice You

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I remember one time, I was walking at the mall then I saw this one beautiful chick walking beside me. I asked her for an opinion and it started the conversation. It was quite fun talking to her, then when she waived goodbye, I went wuss to get her number. It was because I wasn’t prepared for that situation. This was a long long time ago and I just want to share this to you because this is related to our topic today – The importance of preparation.

So what is preparation?

“Preparedness refers to the state of being prepared for specific or unpredictable events or situations. Preparedness is an important quality in achieving goals and in avoiding and mitigating negative outcomes.” ~Wikipedia

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Preparedness

So basically, preparation is highly important in preventing NEGATIVE OUTCOMES, or let me just say, FAILURE AND REJECTION.

If you’re failing to prepare, you’re preparing to fail

This is a biggie…

You should condition your mind first before entering the field. Your mind is a powerful weapon. If you can train it to think and act like an alpha male, your success with women will be easy.

Prepare before you attack. Prepare before approaching women.

Know exactly

  1. How you will open
  2. How you will get her number, and
  3. How you will exit the scene.

Practice this at home or with a friend if necessary

I’m not saying to prepare for the whole thing, like, ‘what do I say when she says this and that?’ because it’s too complicated that way and you’ll sound scripted and not natural. But you should be aware of your attack. Review it BEFORE AND AFTER so you could know your mistakes and how you can improve it.

What I mean is you should know how you would act…

What kind of body language will you use?

Have you practiced the proper body language? Do you know what the proper body language is?

What kind of opener will you use?

Are you using a direct or indirect opener?

How long will you stay in the scene?

– Are you going to stay for 3-5 mins only then grab the number and leave? Or are you going to stay as long as you’re creating attraction?

How will you close?

– will you ask for her number and leave? Or will you ask for an instant date?

Remember to always prepare … and plan your attack. Imagine what you would be doing in that particular situation. And then write down the things you should do and the things that you shouldn’t.

After you get out of the scene, review all the actions that you’ve taken. Take notes of the mistakes you had and think of the things that will improve your approach next time.

If you do this consistently, you will improve your mistakes consistently.

Think about how you can improve your mistakes. And don’t take rejection personally. Just use it to improve your game.

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