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How to Handle Rejections

One day, there were two brothers who believed they can do the extraordinary. They want to build something that nobody has never done before. It was the idea of making the very first flying machine that they believed will change the world. THE IDEA THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD.

They tried and tested the idea BUT got disappointed because it didn’t go the way they think it would be. In other words, THEY FAILED.

There were lots and lots of obstacles that were making their idea impossible.

And yeah, from that moment, it really seemed impossible for the reason that no one else has ever done that before.

The road to their success was pretty hard. They were complete failures.

But here’s the thing: they still continued to believe that success will come one day. They still worked hard and did not let anything block their way. No, they didn’t let failure conquer them. They conquered their failure…

And then… SUCCESS… The airplane was born…

They were the first to make that airplane successful.

Okay, I’m not the greatest story teller. But here’s the point:

Nobody has ever done that before. But they still believed they can do it AND they’ve done it…

Overcome Failure and Use It As An Advantage

Do you think they would be successful if they quit after their first failure? Of course not! They didn’t take failure personally and used it to their advantage. They used their failure to IMPROVE and not to cry while telling themselves how miserable they were.

This is exactly the same when it comes to being good with women.

Not too long ago, I thought women are mainly attracted to good looking guys. But then I realized that most of my good looking friends don’t get the most good looking women.

I have unattractive friends that date extremely good looking women. And I know you also have seen a couple like this before.

Now ask yourself this question: What do they have that you don’t?

Don’t Take Rejections Personally

The very first step that will make you successful in meeting women is disregarding rejections. It’s just part of the game, so you might as well accept it. It’s just a phase. It’s like a level that we have to pass through before we finish the video game that we’re playing.

We don’t cry after we get rejected. We continue our lives and improve. We learn from our mistakes.

Rejections On A Positive Perspective

When you come to think of it, rejections is a way to improve your game. The fact is: you learn something everytime you get rejected. The more rejections you get, the more you master the situation.

The only question is: will you use it to improve your game?

Trying will get you better results than any guys out there that wait for women to come to them. So don’t stop trying until you succeed…

It’s like playing the guitar, after some months of frustrating practice and experience in the field, you will eventually start to master playing it.

Attract Females

SUBJECT: Here’s The Opposite of Failure and Rejection… <- turn this into a positive one (with a great BENEFIT) part 1

Hey! Here’s a new lesson I got for you! :-)

It’s a bit long so I divided it into three parts. So uhm this is the very first one. You’ll learn a lot of golden stuff here…so good luck!

What do you think is the fastest way in being successful with women? A lot of guys ask this question that’s why I took it as our lesson for today.

Once upon a time, there were two brothers who believed they can do the extraordinary that nobody has ever done before. It was the idea of making the very first thing that they believed will change the world. THE IDEA THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD. They tried and tested the idea BUT got disappointed because it didn’t go the way they think it would be. In other words, THEY FAILED. There were lots and lots of obstacles that were making their idea impossible and yeah, from that moment, it really seemed impossible for the reason that no one else have ever done that before.

The road to their success was pretty hard. They were complete failures. But here’s the thing: they still continued to believe that they will be successful one day. They still worked hard and did not let anything block their way. No, they didn’t let failure conquer them. They conquered their failure…

And then… SUCCESS… The airplane was born…

They were the first to make that airplane successful.

Take note: nobody has ever done that before. But they still believed they can do it AND they’ve done it…

Now…

Do you think they would be successful if they quit after their first failure? Of course not! They didn’t take failure personally and used it to their advantage. They used their failure to IMPROVE and not to cry while telling themselves how miserable they were.

This is exactly the same when it comes to being good with women. We don’t cry after we get rejected. We continue our lives and improve! We learn from our mistakes!

The very first step that will make you successful in meeting women is disregarding rejections. It’s just part of the game, so we might as well accept it. It’s just a phase. It’s like a level that we have to pass through before we finish the video game that we’re playing.

Now let me ask you these questions:

  • Do you feel inferior to hot women?
  • Do you think you’re NOT good looking enough to attract the kind of women you want?

I want to be completely honest with you. Yes, looks matters. But it doesn’t mean they only go for the good looking guys. There are a lot of not so good looking guys out there that are dating hot women.

This is simply because they don’t care much about looks. There is other stuff that women find very attractive to men and these are

  • confidence
  • humor
  • challenge
  • playfulness

Now if you don’t have the looks and if you want to attract hot women, you can still do it by making yourself look good and also by improving your personality.

Today we’ll be talking about how to look good.

If you don’t have the looks, then start improving other things that is improvable.

It doesn’t matter even if you’re bald, fat, and ugly as long as you have the confidence to carry yourself properly in front of women because confidence is what makes them attracted to you.

I have seen lots of unattractive men who date extremely hot women. Believe me, it’s not all about looks.

Good looks DO help. But it’s not the only factor that can attract women so you have to stop thinking bad about yourself and start doing things to make you look better.

Start LOOKING GOOD.

Shave your facial hair, have a great hairstyle, and take care of your hygiene. Women are very attracted to guys who take care of themselves. Why do you think they get attracted to gays? Because gays are very conscious with their looks and they are well groomed.

Now I’m not telling you to be gay but you have to be well groomed. You will have a great boost in confidence when you’re looking good. PLUS, you will get a lot of attraction from the very first start you meet women. Women are very observant; they will look immediately at your grooming and will judge you quickly.

For example: if a girl sees your clean shoes, she will probably have this immediate feedback ‘Hmm, this guy seems to be taking care of himself. It seems to be that he’s taking good care of his life and job too.’ And she’ll probably have another thought like this ‘I like a man who’s taking care of his life… because I know if he takes care of his life, he will probably be taking care of my child too’ And you will have more chance of attracting her because she will be more receptive to you because you look good.

Women are great at noticing these little details.

Looking good is very attractive because it gives them an idea that you are a neat, organized, and responsible person. And they like responsible men because they want to have a man who will be responsible for their children.

It’s like an instant HIGH STATUS from women. Meaning, you will get immediate feedback that you seem like a valuable person. They will treat you differently and will be more receptive to what you say.

So look good. ALWAYS. It will boost your confidence… PLUS… it will make you look more valuable.

Always remember that good looks is jut a tiny bit of what attracts women. If you aren’t good looking, then you can still look good.

This is the first lesson of the opposite of failure and rejection… we’ll continue tomorrow.

To Your Success with Women,

~Rocks

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