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How to Attract Females: How to Pick Up a Woman

how to pick up a womanHow to Attract Females: How to Pick Up a Woman

So you want to know how to pick up women?

Well, the first thing that will surely help you in mastering this skill is watching other guys that are already good at picking up women.

However, you still need to practice if you want to get good at it.

In this article, I’m going to show you a step-by-step guide on how to pick up women at the bar and how to be good at it.

Step 1: Check Out the Place

Check out the chicks at that bar. Pick your target and don’t wait and think about what to say. You should prepare that at home.

To make yourself more comfortable, befriend other guys first before you pick up women. Talk with the bartenders or waitresses because that will boost your confidence and will make women think like “Hey, this is a friendly guy who roams around this bar. I think it’s cool to talk to him”

When you see your target, go and approach as soon as possible. You should be in a mindset of an “approach machine”. I mean, you’re at a bar that’s why your only purpose is to only meet women.  Have a goal of meeting 1 woman every 20 minutes. Remember: MEET, not get laid.

If you’re just starting out, try to forget about getting laid first and instead think about how to develop your social skills for your long term. Think of it like this: the woman that you’re going to approach today is just for practice. You’re just preparing yourself so when the time comes that you actually meet the woman that is right for you, you’ll be ready. Focus on improving your social skills.

Step 2: Check Her Out

Is she alone or with some friends? Women with good looks often have friends that accompany them. So if you want to be successful at picking up hot women, you have to learn how to open and socialize with a group of at least 2 women.

Is she wearing a seductive dress? You will notice women that are out to get laid. There are also women who go to bars just for that. Well of course not all women are like that. But when you meet a chick like this one, it will be a good chance to practice your skills.

Is she bored or annoyed with her company? If you notice that she’s bored with her friends or maybe with a wuss who’s only wasting her time, go and get her already! Don’t wait any longer. Go and attack without thinking!

Step 3: Check for Indication of Interest (Optional)

Okay this one is not necessarily needed everytime you’re picking up women. But it’s absolutely vital to learn how to check for indications of interest.

If she’s interested, she will check you out often. That is the first and the most common sign of interest so you should be aware of that. When she looks at you, don’t look away. Return the eye-contact and let her break it instead. This shows confidence and dominance.

Step 4: Open With Awesomeness

Now, when you approach your target, be sure to keep this in mind:

When your target is 7-10 (the extremely hot and gorgeous), it is easier to open with an opinion opener rather than a direct opener where you directly show your interest. It’s because hotter women are used to hearing direct openers quite often from men. It’s better to open 10’s with a cocky and challenging attitude because of their high egos. You have to lower their status and keep yours higher to control the game.

On the other hand, when your target is 7 below (the average type), it’s okay to open with a direct opener. But be careful when you try to be cocky and challenging because there’s a high chance of getting them offended and you’ll look like a jerk. It’s easier to start a conversation with a 7 though. The less attractive the chick is, the more safe for you to give compliments.

Step 5: Build Attraction and Comfort

Now after you open, build attraction as soon as possible.

You have to keep a challenging attitude when you’re gaming on 10’s. You have to disqualify yourself as a suitor because once you let her notice your interest, she will see that you perceive her with higher value than yourself. And by that, you’re giving your power to her and disqualifying yourself like the other guys that tried to pick her up.

You can create attraction by being cocky and funny, teasing, and by being a challenge. Instead of letting her see your interest, do the opposite. Accuse her of trying to seduce you. This will be more effective when you mix it with humor.

Always remember that you have to have a higher level of energy when you’re gaming on any woman.

Step 6: Close

Now depending on the situation (or target), you can close with getting her number, setting your next meeting (or date), or going straight to the bedroom. This depends on how well you establish rapport and attraction.

When you ask for her number, you can ask it directly or indirectly.
When you ask directly, well, ask it directly. “Hey, you seem fun. I’m interested in seeing you again. What’s your number?”

Now for the indirect close, think of a reason why you should get her number like talking about a good restaurant nearby and telling her “Hey, we should go there sometime! –She answers- Great! What’s your number?”

Okay! There you go! Now your next move is to take action. Go practice and improve your social skills. That’s the one main secret in being good with women!

More Tips:

–    Don’t think about the outcome!
–    Have a higher energy level than your target
–    When you’re gaming on chicks, focus on qualifying her instead of just letting her qualify you.
–    Have a wingman (a buddy) to help you out on gaming chicks. It is much easier to learn how to pick up women when you have a buddy to help you on improving your game.

How to Attract Females: How to Pick Up a Woman

How to Pick Up a Woman

The key to being good at picking up women is practice. Maybe you’ll get a hard time at first, but after some time you’ll be able to master any kind of situation when you pick up chicks.

In this article, I’m going to show you a step-by-step guide on how to pick up women at the bar and how to be good at it.

Step 1: Check Out the Place

Check out the chicks in that bar. You will see chicks left and right. Now pick your target and don’t wait and think about what to say. You should prepare that at home.

To make yourself more comfortable, befriend other guys first before you pick up women. Talk with the bartenders or waitresses because that will boost your confidence and will make women think like “Hey, this is a friendly guy who roams around this bar. I think he’s cool so I think it’s cool to talk to him”

When you see your target, go and approach as soon as possible. You should be in a mindset of an “approach machine”. I mean, you’re at a bar that’s why your only purpose is to only meet women. Have a goal of meeting 1 woman every 20 minutes. Remember: MEET, not get laid.

If you’re just starting out, try to forget about getting laid first and instead think about how to develop your social skills for your long term. Think of it like this: the woman that you’re going to approach today is just for practice. You’re just preparing yourself so when the time comes that you actually meet the woman that is right for you, you’ll be ready. Focus on improving your social skills.

Step 2: Check Her Out

Is she alone or with some friends? Women with good looks often have friends that accompany them. So if you want to be successful at picking up hot women, you have to learn how to open and socialize with a group of at least 2 women.

Is she wearing a seductive dress? You will notice women that are out to get laid. There are also women who go to bars just for that. Well of course not all women are like that. But when you meet a chick like this one, it will be a good chance to practice your skills.

Is she bored or annoyed with her company? If you notice that she’s bored with her friends or maybe with a wuss who’s only wasting her time, go and get her already! Don’t wait any longer. Go and attack without thinking!

Step 3: Check for Indication of Interest (Optional)

Okay this one is not necessarily needed everytime you’re picking up women. But it’s absolutely vital to learn how to check for indications of interest.

If she’s interested, she will check you out often. That is the first and the most common sign of interest so you should be aware of that. When she looks at you, don’t look away. Return the eye-contact and let her break it instead. This shows confidence and dominance.

Step 4: Open With Awesomeness

Now, when you approach your target, be sure to keep this in mind:

When your target is 7-10 (the extremely hot and gorgeous), it is easier to open with an opinion opener rather than a direct opener where you directly show your interest. It’s because hotter women are used to hearing direct openers quite often from men. It’s better to open 10’s with a cocky and challenging attitude because of their high egos. You have to lower their status and keep yours higher to control the game.

On the other hand, when your target is 7 below (the average type), it’s okay to open with a direct opener. But be careful when you try to be cocky and challenging because there’s a high chance of getting them offended and you’ll look like a jerk. It’s easier to start a conversation with a 7 though. The less attractive the chick is, the more safe for you to give compliments.

Step 5: Build Attraction and Comfort

Now after you open, build attraction as soon as possible.

You have to keep a challenging attitude when you’re gaming on 10’s. You have to disqualify yourself as a suitor because once you let her notice your interest, she will see that you perceive her with higher value than yourself. And by that, you’re giving your power to her and disqualifying yourself like the other guys that tried to pick her up.

You can create attraction by being cocky and funny. Instead of letting her see your interest, do the opposite. Accuse her of trying to seduce you. This will be more effective when you mix it with humor.

Always remember that you have to have a higher level of energy when you’re gaming on any woman.

Step 6: Close

Now depending on the situation (or target), you can close with getting her number, setting your next meeting (or date), or going straight to the bedroom. This depends on how well you establish rapport and attraction.

When you ask for her number, you can ask it directly or indirectly.

When you ask directly, well, ask it directly. “Hey, you seem fun. I’m interested in seeing you again. What’s your number?”

Now for the indirect close, think of a reason why you should get her number like talking about a good restaurant nearby and telling her “Hey, we should go there sometime! –She answers- Great! What’s your number?”

Okay! There you go! Now your next move is to take action. Go practice and improve your social skills. That’s the one main secret in being good with women!

More Tips:

Don’t think about the outcome!

Have a higher energy level than your target

When you’re gaming on chicks, focus on qualifying her instead of just letting her qualify you.

Have a wingman (a buddy) to help you out on gaming chicks. It is much easier to learn how to pick up women when you have a buddy to help you on improving your game.

Now go and promise me you’ll be awesome!

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